At just 11 years old, a young boy arrived at our counseling session burdened with concerns of a low attention span, rebellious behavior, and a persistent thumb-sucking habit during activities. His parents expressed deep worry over his subpar academic performance, despite his interactive nature at home. We learned that the boy’s tightly packed schedule included tennis coaching, a sport favored by his father, highlighting a lack of autonomy in his decision-making process. This scenario presented a complex set of behavioral challenges for the 11-year-old boy, which required careful analysis and intervention.
Case Background:
An 11-year-old boy presented with concerns of low attention span, rebellious behavior, and a thumb-sucking habit during activities. His academic performance was subpar, causing significant worry for his parents. Despite being described as interactive, he appeared reserved. The boy was enrolled in tennis coaching, a pursuit primarily favored by his father, indicating a lack of autonomy in decision-making. Upon further discussion, it became evident that the boy’s schedule was overly demanding, characterized by rigid expectations imposed by himself and his parents. His passion for cricket was overshadowed by the obligation to attend tennis coaching, exacerbating his frustration, and leading to maladaptive behaviors.
For Parents – Our Answer: Understanding the importance of parental support and communication, Aysha from Thenewagetherapist guided the parents in making pivotal changes. They empowered the boy to prioritize his passion for cricket over tennis, granting him the autonomy he needed. Additionally, they were encouraged to spend quality time with him, expressing affection and support. These actions created a nurturing environment where the boy felt valued and heard, leading to significant improvements in his behavior and emotional well-being.
How the Counsellor Helped: Aysha, employing client-centered therapy techniques, skillfully navigated the family’s dynamics. By fostering empathy and understanding, Aysha helped the family identify underlying issues and implement effective solutions. Through personalized strategies tailored to their needs, Aysha facilitated improved communication and emotional connection within the family. This collaborative approach led to positive changes, fostering a healthier and more harmonious family dynamic, ultimately supporting the boy’s emotional growth and development.
Counsellor in charge : Aysha (Senior Psychologist – The Newage Therapist)
