Case Study: Breaking Gender Stereotypes – A Young Girl’s Journey to Pursue Sports
Gender stereotypes have long influenced societal norms and individual behaviors, often limiting opportunities for girls and women. This case study highlights the journey of a 14-year-old girl who faced opposition at home for her passion for sports and how counseling helped her overcome these barriers.
The Challenge
Strained Mother-Daughter Relationship
A 14-year-old girl came to us seeking help with her difficult relationship with her mother. Her mother held traditional views, believing that girls should not participate in sports or activities like the National Cadet Corps (NCC). These beliefs created a significant barrier for the girl, who loved sports and wanted to pursue her interests.
Gender Bias and Discouragement
In her household, traditional gender roles were strictly enforced. The girl was often scolded for defending herself in conflicts with her older brother, as her mother believed girls should not talk back or engage in physical activities. This discouragement extended to her participation in sports and NCC, leaving her feeling isolated and unsupported.
Emotional Distress
The girl’s passion for sports was met with constant opposition, leading to emotional distress. She expressed her frustration with a sad face and a poignant question: “Why can’t girls play sports?” This question encapsulated her struggle against the gender norms imposed by her family.
The Solution: Counseling and Family Intervention
Initial Counseling Session
In our first session, we provided her with an explanation about how traditional gender roles have evolved over time. We emphasized that while these roles were once necessary for survival, modern society has changed, and it’s essential to adapt to new mindsets. We encouraged her to continue pursuing her passion for sports and reassured her that her feelings and desires were valid.
Family Intervention
Recognizing the supportive role her older brother played, we encouraged her to seek his help in communicating with their mother. Her brother, despite occasionally teasing her, understood the importance of supporting his sister’s interests. He played a crucial role in helping their mother realize the benefits of sports and why it was important for her daughter to pursue her passions.
The Results
Improved Family Dynamics
In subsequent sessions, the girl reported significant positive changes at home. Her mother, with the help of her brother, began to understand and support her interest in sports. The mother’s change in attitude was a breakthrough, allowing the girl to feel more accepted and encouraged in her pursuits.
Emotional Well-Being and Academic Balance
The girl appeared more relaxed and happier, reporting that she could now participate in sports and NCC without fear of criticism or discouragement. This support from her family significantly improved her emotional well-being and allowed her to balance her academic responsibilities with her extracurricular activities.
Future Aspirations
With her newfound support, the girl started to dream about a future career in sports or a related field. She expressed her determination to break the cycle of gender stigma and ensure that, as a future mother, she would encourage her children to pursue their interests regardless of gender.
This case study highlights the importance of addressing and challenging gender stereotypes within families. Through counseling and family intervention, the young girl was able to pursue her passion for sports, gain emotional support, and envision a future where she can break down traditional barriers.
This case study demonstrates the transformative power of counseling in challenging gender norms and supporting young individuals in pursuing their passions. By fostering understanding and communication within families, we can help break down barriers and promote gender equality.
Counsellor in Charge: Kruthika. S. Gadwal (Psychologist – The NewAge Therapist, Bengaluru)
